他的初恋 His first love

结婚前 他坦白。。。

因为一个脚踏俩船的初恋女生 弃他嫁人 他招妓 

结婚20多年。。。他又坦白

（坦白=过错消毁？）

6-7年前重逢 享受着 重温旧梦也因婚外情陷入忧郁 对自己举武器

为这个50多岁初恋女人  神魂颠倒 对家人没时间和更加没耐性

12/2021  紧急更换手机号 想躲避 并和初恋结束

似乎不是干脆一刀两段   这女人 (仍然是已婚妇) 可能会找上合法家庭 

理论?

炫耀?

这个人 还有资格称为丈夫？

因为有缺陷 无法自理的女儿 他可以是同一个屋檐下的生活伙伴

他仍然是一家之主和父亲但不是亲密夫妻 (不在同一个卧房)

我没骂他 也没歇斯底里 只平静问了 "你和她有发生关系？"

Before getting married, he confessed first love was a two-timer who married someone else.   He was devastated, visited prostitutes after the breakup.

20 years+ after marriage, he confessed again.

(confession=mistakes can be erased?)

6-7 years ago, he met his first love, intoxicated, rekindled and this affair led him to depression.  He pointed weapon towards himself.

For this 50+ years old first love, he has no time for his immediate family, ranked as low priority and gave little tolerance.

Dec 2021, he suddenly changed his mobile number, said had avoided her (woman is still a married person) and ended relationship.  Told his legal family members that woman may approach .... not a clean break, vent?  

Show off?

This man fit to be a husband?

For my special needs child, we can be living partners under the same roof but not the typical close relationship (not in the same bedroom).  He can still be the man in the house and act as a father but not as a husband.

I didn't scold him or turned hysterical, just asked "did you sleep with her?"